Category Archives: Family

Quick! Before Christmas

1. Make space: Assess and declutter the kids’ toys and clothing. Do it with them, do it without them (with great wisdom and depending on their ages), but do it. Make room for what you know is coming. Go together to donate. Talk about blessings – how they come in and how they go out. […]

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Maximizer, Satisficer, or Monkey in the Middle?

Sometimes I think I am spending much of my adulthood recovering from my childhood, and I mean that in the nicest possible way, because my growing up time was terrific – I was blessed with exemplary parents, wise mentors, and valuable education and training. Of course, valuable traits are not the only ones I brought with me […]

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The Best Possible Thing to Happen to a Sweet Potato, and Other Thanksgiving Advice

From 2005 — time flies… First, the other advice. ~Remember, it’s just a meal: Probably nobody but you wants multiple courses, This is an American holiday, and most Americans throw everything except dessert on the table and eat it all at once. Skip the fig and goat cheese crostini appetizers and the cream of chestnut soup. ~Remember, […]

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Pretty, Happy, Funny, Real

The very nice ladies at Like Mother, Like Daughter do a link-up on Thursdays called Pretty, Happy, Funny, Real, in which they invite other bloggers to post a photo for each category to help “capture the context of everyday life,” a goal I wholeheartedly endorse.  Go there to see what’s Pretty, Happy, Funny, and Real in […]

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Balancing Balance, Part VII: Categorizing My Life’s Big Chunks, Little Chunks, and Nuggets

In the last article, we talked about making a mind map to show the Big Chunks, Little Chunks, and Nuggets that make up your life. This is a graphic of what you do with your time. It can be sobering or exhilarating to see it all there in black and white – probably it is […]

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Happy Holidays: Prevent the Gimmes by Tempering the Givers

Even though our offspring are deep into their teens and twenties and we just now threw out the jack-o-lantern, the grandparents have been badgering the kids and me for their wish lists for Christmas gifts. This is an annual ritual as familiar as the turkey on the Thanksgiving table. You, too? Even during an economically […]

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Balancing Balance, Part V: What are Your Family’s Gatekeeper Filters?

In the last article, we discussed three uses of personal filters – as a tool for time management, for non-time-related choices, and as gatekeepers to decide which things to allow into our lives. A gatekeeper is one who tends or guards a gate, one who controls access. This is where personal filters give their greatest […]

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Wise Words Wednesday: Understanding My Mother and Myself as a Mother

My sister with her second-born daughter. (My children were born before the advent of the digital camera.) “A mother’s love for her children, even her inability to let them be, is because she is under a painful law that the life that passed through her must be brought to fruition. Even when she swallows it […]

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Balancing Balance, Part IV: Personal Filters for Life Management

Read Part I herePart II herePart III here Personal filters serve us as we make choices in life — from the vitally important to the trivial. There are at least three categories of decisions they help us make: non-time-related options, time management, and what activities will and will not be a part of our lives. […]

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Wise Words Wednesday: Brick by Brick

This is a cautionary tale.  We know it is, because there is a banner that reads, “Caution.”   It is about the building of a brick privacy wall. (And I have no idea why this picture insists on not being centered. I have worked with it and worked with it. Oh, look — by […]

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