Category Archives: Balance

Balancing Balance Part XI: When Changes Come – Staying Light on My Feet

We have spent a good bit of time in this series talking about how to choose and manage the various activities that make up our lives.  We have thought about how to recognize the ways we spend our time. We have discussed how our personal filters act as gatekeepers to let in worthwhile pursuits and […]

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Balancing Balance, Part X: The Home Manager’s Biggest Perk

The other posts in the Balancing Balance series: Part I: Embracing the Truth Part II: Personal Filters Part III: Do I Have the Right to Choose My Filters? Part IV: Personal Filters for Life Management Part V: What are Your Family’s Gatekeeper Filters? Part VI: Where Does Your Time Go? Part VII: Categorizing My Life’s […]

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Balancing Balance, Part IX: Which Extras Get to Be in My Life?

The other posts in the Balancing Balance series: Part I: Embracing the TruthPart II: Personal FiltersPart III: Do I Have the Right to Choose My Filters?Part IV: Personal Filters for Life ManagementPart V: What are Your Family’s Gatekeeper Filters?Part VI: Where Does Your Time Go?Part VII: Categorizing My Life’s Big Chunks, Little Chunks, and Nuggets […]

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Balancing Balance, Part VIII: Evaluating the Extras, or, Why You Shouldn’t Make Pate

For most of us, the Big Chunks and Little Chunks of our lives are pretty much necessary. If you see some on your mind map that ought not to be there, then you have some big decisions to make, but I suspect you are pretty satisfied that you are doing what you need to do […]

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Balancing Balance, Part VII: Categorizing My Life’s Big Chunks, Little Chunks, and Nuggets

In the last article, we talked about making a mind map to show the Big Chunks, Little Chunks, and Nuggets that make up your life. This is a graphic of what you do with your time. It can be sobering or exhilarating to see it all there in black and white – probably it is […]

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Balancing Balance Part VI: Where Does Your Time Go?

If your husband came home and said, “What do you do all day, anyway?” you might feel insulted, but we have to admit it is a pretty fair question. Hmm. Where does your time go? It can be enlightening to figure that out. Every role in your life takes a chunk of your time. Have […]

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Balancing Balance, Part V: What are Your Family’s Gatekeeper Filters?

In the last article, we discussed three uses of personal filters – as a tool for time management, for non-time-related choices, and as gatekeepers to decide which things to allow into our lives. A gatekeeper is one who tends or guards a gate, one who controls access. This is where personal filters give their greatest […]

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Balancing Balance, Part IV: Personal Filters for Life Management

Read Part I herePart II herePart III here Personal filters serve us as we make choices in life — from the vitally important to the trivial. There are at least three categories of decisions they help us make: non-time-related options, time management, and what activities will and will not be a part of our lives. […]

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Balancing Balance, Part III: Do I Have the Right to Choose My Filters?

In the last article, we defined personal filters and discussed the importance of choosing the correct primary filter so our lives go in the direction we want. We said that personal filters are a person’s conscience and wisdom working in tandem to direct her life. We observed that most of us live in a state […]

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Balancing Balance, Part II: Personal Filters

If you find yourself with a to-do list longer than your stamina, you need personal filters.* If you find it difficult to say no to requests to organize the soccer tournament, bake fifteen dozen cookies for the bake sale, or teach Bible class for the next decade without a break, you need personal filters. If […]

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